The CEO is halfway through a slide deck that looks like it was designed by someone who eats exclusively at neon-lit diners, and I can feel the collective blood pressure of the 45 people in the room rising toward a dangerous plateau. He is talking about ‘synergy,’ ‘vertical expansion,’ and a new AI-driven initiative that will apparently solve problems we didn’t know we had 25 minutes ago. I look over at Ian P.-A., our lead precision welder who somehow ended up in this town hall. Ian isn’t looking at the screen. He’s looking at his hands, probably calculating the thermal expansion of a 55-millimeter joint, and I can see the exact moment he decides to stop caring about the corporate mission. It’s a quiet click, like a breaker flipping in a basement.
[The silence of a team that has been told to do ‘one more thing’ is heavier than any protest.]
We are currently managing 15 ‘top-tier’ priorities. By the end of this presentation, that number will climb to 25. The executive team is nodding with the kind of practiced enthusiasm that usually precedes a massive stock sell-off or a nervous breakdown. They think this is ambition. They think that saying ‘yes’ to every shiny object on the horizon is a sign of a growth mindset. In reality, it is a sign of profound intellectual cowardice. It is the inability to make a choice, and in business, the refusal to choose is the fastest way to become mediocre at 105 different things.
The Paralysis of Perfect Choice
I spent 45 minutes this morning comparing the price of the exact same stainless steel kettle across five different sites. I knew it was a waste of time. I knew that the $5 I might save was worth less than the mental energy I was burning, but I did it anyway because I was paralyzed by the desire to make the ‘perfect’ choice. This is the same sickness that infects leadership. We are so afraid of missing out on the next big trend that we end up doing everything poorly. We become so focused on the marginal gains of a new initiative that we ignore the fact that our core infrastructure is held together by 85 lines of legacy code and the sheer willpower of two junior engineers who haven’t slept since the last ‘pivot.’
Precision requires focus on the single point where heat meets metal.
Ian P.-A. once told me that a weld is only as good as the breath you hold. He’s 55 years old and has the steady hands of a surgeon who specializes in robots. If you ask him to weld a titanium plate while simultaneously checking the pressure on a boiler 15 meters away, he’ll walk off the job. He knows that precision requires an absolute, almost monastic focus on the single point where the heat meets the metal. When leadership adds ‘just one more project’ to the stack, they are asking their team to blink. And in the world of high-stakes execution, a blink is where the cracks start.
The Cost of Context Switching
This culture of ‘strategy by addition’ creates a specific kind of organizational chaos that is hard to quantify until it’s too late. It’s not just about the hours worked; it’s about the context switching. Every time an engineer has to stop working on a critical security patch to sit in a 75-minute meeting about a new marketing gimmick, we lose more than just time. We lose the thread. We lose the deep, flow-state concentration that actually produces work worth doing. We are trading 15% of our long-term stability for 5% of a short-term headline. It is a bad trade, yet we make it 35 times a year.
The Annual Trade-Off (35 Exchanges/Year)
The trade is intentionally exaggerated to illustrate the disproportionate risk.
I’ve seen this play out in the retail sector as well. Some companies try to sell everything from tractor parts to toothbrushes, and they end up with a logistics nightmare that leaves customers frustrated and employees burnt out. Then you see a model like Bomba.md, where there is a clear, focused understanding of a niche. They don’t try to be a social media platform or a space exploration company. They sell reliable appliances and electronics. They understand that by narrowing the focus to high-quality kitchen tech and home essentials, they can optimize the supply chain, the customer service, and the technical support in a way that a generalist never could. There is a bravery in that kind of limitation. It’s the bravery of saying, ‘We do this, and we don’t do that.’
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I’ve made the mistake of saying yes too often myself. Last quarter, I took on 5 extra consulting gigs because the money was good and I convinced myself that I could ‘optimize my schedule’ to fit them in. I ended up missing a deadline for a client I’ve had for 15 years. The $1225 I made from the new gigs didn’t cover the cost of the trust I lost with my oldest partner. I was trying to be a ‘high-performer,’ but I was actually just being a disorganized glutton for work. It was a failure of strategy. I didn’t have a plan; I just had a lack of boundaries.
– The Author (On Lacking Boundaries)
Strategy as Subtraction
Strategy is not a list of goals. It is a set of hard choices. If your strategy doesn’t involve a list of things you have explicitly decided NOT to do, then you don’t have a strategy-you have a wish list. When a CEO stands up and adds a new priority without removing an old one, they aren’t leading; they are offloading their indecision onto the backs of their employees. They are making the team pay the price for their inability to prioritize. We see the consequences in the way people look at their keyboards when the ‘exciting news’ is announced. We see it in the 25% increase in turnover among the people who actually know how the systems work.
[Boredom]
FINISHED
True leadership is the courage to be bored with a good idea until it is finished.
I think back to my kettle search. I eventually bought one for $45, not because it was the best deal, but because I realized I was using the search to avoid doing the actual work of writing. This is the ‘Busy-Work Paradox.’ Companies launch new initiatives because doing the hard, grinding work of improving existing systems is boring. It’s not ‘visionary’ to fix a bug that has been annoying users for 105 days. It’s ‘visionary’ to launch a new blockchain-integrated loyalty program. So we do the new thing, the shallow thing, the easy-to-talk-about thing, while the foundation rots.
HONESTY IN EXECUTION
The Sound of Integrity
Ian P.-A. eventually stood up in the middle of that all-hands meeting. He didn’t say anything at first. He just walked to the back of the room and started cleaning the espresso machine. The sound of the steam wand hissed over the CEO’s talk about ‘multi-channel engagement.’ It was the most honest sound in the room. It was the sound of someone doing one thing, and doing it right. I realized then that the most valuable person in any company isn’t the one who says ‘yes’ to the boss; it’s the one who says ‘no’ to the noise.
Excellence cannot scale when spread too thin.
We are currently obsessed with ‘scale.’ We want to scale our impact, our revenue, our reach. But you cannot scale excellence if you are spreading it across 225 different fronts. Excellence is a concentrated resource. If you dilute it, you just get a very large pool of mediocrity. I’ve seen teams of 5 people outperform teams of 85 simply because the smaller team knew exactly what they were trying to achieve and, more importantly, what they were willing to ignore. They weren’t distracted by the 15 different ways they could ‘potentially’ pivot. They were too busy making the current version work perfectly.
The Discipline of Limitation
Kill Projects
Reward those who stop the drain.
Anchor Mission
Know what you stand for.
Celebrate Finishers
Value completion over novelty.
If we want to stop the burnout, we have to start celebrating the ‘No.’ We need to give awards for the projects that were killed before they could drain the life out of the engineering department. We need to stop equating ‘busy’ with ‘productive.’ The next time someone offers you an ‘exciting new opportunity’ that doesn’t align with your core mission, I want you to think about Ian P.-A. and his 55-millimeter weld. Think about the integrity of the seam. Think about the heat. And then, with all the politeness you can muster, tell them to get out of your workshop.
I finally finished that kettle comparison and realized the one I liked best was the one I already had in my cart 35 minutes earlier. I wasted all that time looking for something ‘more’ when I already had enough. Organizations do this every day. They have enough talent, they have enough market share, they have enough ideas. What they don’t have is the discipline to stay in the room with those ideas until they become something great. We are a culture of starters, but the world is changed by the finishers. And you can’t finish anything if you’re too busy starting 25 other things.
The Final Question
Current Priorities
Focused Priorities
What would your company look like if you cut your priority list by 65% tomorrow? Would it collapse, or would it finally breathe?